Tuesday, October 19, 2010

MY UNLIMITED DREAMS......

For childhood i dreamed a lot , i dreamed about  wonders , miracles, shortcuts for happiness, about a different world , world in the sense the world of my dreams where my aspirations are followed ...

I belong to a native  where female child are been killed when they are born or married when they are under aged but my luck i was bought up in cities like a normal child . My family people encouraged a lot for female education to their 3rd generation (us) . My mother was married at the age of 16 even she was the only daughter , all my aunts(dad's sis) where married between 15- 18years pretty misfortune. but there was lot encouragement for we people(all girls) in family to study but all these years i only saw my elder cousins quitting studies and marrying some rich man who is 10 or 11 years elder to them.. One of my elder  who recently quit her polytechnic studies in second year saying that she is not interested in studies .. my uncle pleaded her like anything but no use she don't wanna study or do anything else ....

But i'm unlike them i always dreamed high . I want to study very high . i want to be second person to get PhD in my family (first one is my dad) ..  But  all i wanted to do in my future is  establishing schools in rural areas and areas like my native village .. I just wanna teach primary kids .. I know with my degree i can earn lot of money i don't want to. i'll earn lot of money but can i ensure my happiness after that??? no i can't...

I never keep top secrets from my parents  so i told them about my dreams and... my dad gave a weirdo smile  and my mom was like shocked  she said " what all you wanted to wanna be is teacher  with big degree and you want to do some unnecessary things?? " .. they thought studying long made me so.. From then few bad days my library card was taken  a strict warning that i should not read novels and autobiographies and all started giving me lectures lolzz . It is not a unusual dream but place i belonged to for them it is quite unusual  hehe... After  2years and 3months i started buying books and reading books again :D.... 
I'm from south of Indian and i belong to a place where people (women) hardly know about blogs and i write blogs(i like writing ) even my blogs are bad no doubt it is a big achievement of me... 
All these years i never stopped dreaming, dreaming about my own world which i want to establish and i know i will do it and i can do it.....
My friends the  crazy idiotic people who are always around me are my main encouragement ..
  • so many hands in one chips packet...
  • so many idiots in one bench..
  • so many calls on one birthday night ..
  • so many laughs for one silly joke..
  • so many tears for one little fight ..
  • so many smiles for one victory ..
  • friends the best part in life..
  • especially MY FRIENDS.
  • (navy , hams, div,lavu,chaitu, pinky,  sus ,chandu, sai , josh, zullu , appala )...... My dearest friends  from school and college!!!! may long live you guys!!!

12 comments:

delightfullness said...

this is a great post sudhi
be a role model...and prove to everyone that you are different!!!
I am simply amazed with your personality...i somehow relate to you
because, I too....wanted to prove something to everyone.. not to be accepted but to prove that If I dream big...I can make it and hold onto it

sudhi said...

wow nice ambition and thanx for ur wonderful comment..

beanizer_05 said...

wow! you moved me!
when i first read the lines, i thought it was all about dreams..but hey! you surprised me! i didn't expect the next flow of words. Seriously, this is awesome! you are awesome! i didn't expect your story! it made me "wow" inside. Well,i wish you success in all your endeavors! A good heart is always a victor, remember that. Wake up and make those dreams into reality. I know you will succeed! *wink*

hmmmm..why can't i find my name there?? *pointing*..i gave you a long comment! hmp! hmp!

sudhi said...

beany im really teary eyed now thanx for ur supportive comment !!! u r always a very good friend n my heart no words r required to describe u !!!

beanizer_05 said...

but i'm requiring you to buy me 50 gallons of ice cyeeeeeeeeeeam!!!
buy me buy me!! *puppy eyes*

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sudhi said...

beany ok i'll buy u raw veggies fatty!!

@moonshine: thanx for the comment i'll ty to visit!!!

WebbieLady said...

i was grinning as i read about your friends... just like what i experienced with my friends back in school... u made me miss them as now we are all scattered all over the world.

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sudhi said...

@webbie: don't worry u'll meet themone day!!!

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Didzy said...

you really have great visions for yourself and for the future of the children :) I wish you all the best and may your dreams come true one day. I salute you, Sudhi ;)

sudhi said...

thanx didzy!!!!